Dark hair. No flings and dick pics are not only NOT necessary, major turnoff... I am a husband and father that has an open relationship with a man who lives over seas and comes every 2 to 3 months to spend time on this Island of the Gods where I live. I like to plan things carefully and then I follow the plan step by step.
I travel for work often, which has allowed me to meet guys who have a like mind and enjoy various forms of kink, bdsm or some other common interest. Happily married woman and black nude in the country walks.